Think about whether you're more comfortable having sex at your place or theirs. Are there drugs on can take dat can make u less nrevous or make ur the area a bit numb soat least for that short while i dont feel the pain? If you feel tense when you think about sex or when you and your partner are fooling around, it might be a sign that you should wait. Start with openers like "I like when you do this No one should pressure you into doing something you don't want to.
Dim lighting, soft music, and a warm room temperature can help make you feel safe and comfortable.
I feel that if I lost my virginity, I would know what to and what to expect afterwards. Make sure you are ready to have sex. And trust me i'ts not THAT bad. If you can help your partner ease into you at the correct angle, you'll avoid some potentially painful fumbling. What should I do? Don't drink or take any kind of drug out of fear of pain. Wait until you're actually ready to have sex.